Saturday, February 26, 2005

Friendship

"If I don't go to hell, who goes to hell?" I vaguely remember this saying from a Chinese movie I watched as a kid. I didn't understand the meaning of it. As an adult, I have a better grasp of that powerful saying.

I apply that saying to the way I view friendship. We all agree that friendship is a two-way street. Just like no one chooses to go to hell, a friend never wants to be disappointed by another. Yet in the real world, where there is expectation, there will be disappointment. Such is the law of yin and yang.

Knowing such reality, it reinforces my person philosophy about friendship. I will strive to be the best friend to another as I can without expectation. That way I don't have to be disappointed (not that feeling disappointed is always a bad thing. How else are we going to grow?). When a friend reciprocates, that is a bonus. It is that simple.

If I don't like to suffer, why would I want my freind to suffer? Therefore, if I don't suffer, who suffers?

8 Comments:

Blogger oakleyses said...

ray ban sunglasses, louboutin shoes, rolex watches, tory burch outlet, ugg boots clearance, michael kors outlet, christian louboutin, tiffany and co, louis vuitton outlet, michael kors outlet, burberry outlet, air max, louis vuitton outlet, michael kors outlet online sale, jordan shoes, louboutin, louis vuitton, louis vuitton outlet stores, uggs, michael kors outlet, michael kors outlet, oakley sunglasses, ugg outlet, prada handbags, replica watches, cheap uggs, longchamp outlet, michael kors outlet, oakley sunglasses cheap, longchamp handbags, tiffany and co, prada outlet, nike free, ray ban sunglasses, burberry outlet, nike shoes, uggs outlet, polo ralph lauren, louboutin outlet, louis vuitton handbags, polo ralph lauren outlet, gucci outlet, air max, longchamp handbags, oakley sunglasses

5:58 PM  
Blogger oakleyses said...

true religion jeans, air max pas cher, michael kors, hogan outlet, coach purses, timberland, nike roshe run pas cher, hollister, louboutin, nike tn, michael kors uk, kate spade handbags, longchamp, air jordan, coach outlet, kate spade outlet, nike free pas cher, coach outlet store online, vans pas cher, polo lacoste, hollister, vanessa bruno, ray ban sunglasses, converse pas cher, air max, sac burberry, polo ralph lauren, new balance pas cher, chanel handbags, sac hermes, true religion jeans, sac guess, nike air force, coach factory outlet, michael kors outlet, ray ban pas cher, michael kors pas cher, true religion outlet, north face, sac longchamp pas cher, true religion outlet, oakley pas cher, north face, lululemon outlet online, nike blazer

6:13 PM  
Blogger oakleyses said...

ghd, reebok outlet, air max, beats by dre, wedding dresses, nike roshe, lululemon outlet, jimmy choo outlet, north face outlet, bottega veneta, soccer shoes, new balance shoes, nike free, mulberry, baseball bats, mont blanc, ferragamo shoes, chi flat iron, soccer jerseys, p90x, hollister, giuseppe zanotti, birkin bag, abercrombie and fitch, babyliss pro, vans shoes, longchamp, nike air max, ralph lauren, nike trainers, nike huaraches, asics running shoes, valentino shoes, instyler, hollister clothing store, herve leger, celine handbags, north face jackets, mac cosmetics, mcm handbags, abercrombie and fitch, nike roshe run, air max, insanity workout, nfl jerseys

6:39 PM  
Blogger oakleyses said...

hollister, michael kors outlet online, ugg, sac lancel, pandora charms, louis vuitton, timberland boots, coach outlet store online, louis vuitton, ugg pas cher, pandora charms, pandora jewelry, ugg boots, pandora jewelry, ugg, converse, toms shoes, swarovski, ugg, oakley, converse shoes, vans, supra shoes, thomas sabo, louis vuitton uk, ralph lauren, sac louis vuitton, rolex watches, ray ban, wedding dresses, gucci, michael kors handbags, sac louis vuitton, air max, swarovski crystal, marc jacobs, doke gabbana, louboutin, michael kors outlet, iphone cases, karen millen, juicy couture outlet, juicy couture, abercrombie, links of london, montre homme

6:55 PM  
Blogger chenlina said...

chenlina20151210
the north face
coach factory outlet
louis vuitton outlet
air max uk
louis vuitton handbags
abercrombie & fitch
canada goose coats
louis vuitton handbags
uggs on sale
uggs on sale
uggs clearance
louis vuitton
ugg boots
adidas uk
abercrombie
ugg boots sale
louis vuitton outlet
cheap oakley sunglasses
nike huarache shoes
prada handbags
ugg sale
oakley sunglasses
cheap air jordans
cheap uggs
kids lebron shoes
michael kors handbags
ralph lauren uk
michael kors outlet
oakley sunglasses
nike air max
louis vuitton outlet online
ugg outlet
nike roshe run women
oakley outlet
uggs on sale
adidas originals
nike huarache
abercrombie fitch
coach outlet online
ed hardy clothing
as

5:31 PM  
Blogger Wenhao Guo said...

hermes bags
polo ralph lauren
moncler coats
asics
prada outlet store
rayban sunglasses
cheap oakley sunglasses
coach outlet
pandora charms
coach outlet online,coach purses,coach handbags,coach bags,coach handbags sale,coach handbags outlet
ralph lauren sale
nike air max
mulberry handbags
adidas outlet store
oakley outlet online
true religion jeans
ugg boots
mlb jerseys wholesale
puma shoes
polo ralph lauren outlet
lacoste polo
ddddd1214

11:25 PM  
Blogger 柯云 said...

2015-12-24keyun
hollister kids
coach outlet
cheap uggs
ugg outlet store
cheap uggs sale
louis vuitton purses
louis vuitton outlet
michael kors outlet store
oakley sunglasses sale
cheap oakleys
louis vuitton outlet
ralph lauren sale
michael kors outlet online
louis vuitton purses
toms
ugg boots outlet
michael kors outlet sale
oakley store
polo ralph lauren
p90x
abercrombie
louis vuitton handbags
tory burch
ugg sale
abercrombie clothing
uggs for sale
abercrombie outlet
swarovski crystal
ed hardy outlet
cheap toms shoes
coach outlet
timberlands
cheap ray ban sunglasses
christian louboutin
ugg boots outlet
louis vuitton outlet stores
michael kors outlet
replica rolex watches
nike air huarache
coach outlet

10:55 PM  
Blogger Nike Free said...

jordans shoes
jordan shoes
kobe shoes
kd 7
nike air max 2016
nike outlet
nike free trainer 5.0
nike store
black christian louboutin
Red Bottom Shoes
discount mbt Shoes
mbt canada
fitflop sandals
fitflop sale
www.2016nikeairhuaraches.com
Kobe 9 Elite
christian louboutin sale
christian louboutin 2016
jordan 13
cheap jordans for sale
new jordans
Jordan 11 Retro 72 10
coach outlet online
coach outlet online coach factory outlet
Michael Kors Store
michael kors
michael kors selma
Michael Kors Christmas
michael kors sale
Michael Kors Factory Outlet
michael kors factory
michael kors outlets
michael kors factory outlet

9:40 PM  

Post a Comment

<< Home